Analisis Self-Control terhadap Orang Tua dengan Pendekatan Rasional Emotif di Dusun Bela'

Yisporel, Yisporel (2026) Analisis Self-Control terhadap Orang Tua dengan Pendekatan Rasional Emotif di Dusun Bela'. Scholar thesis, Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Toraja.

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Abstract

Self-control merupakan kemampuan individu dalam mengendalikan pikiran, emosi, dan perilaku sehingga tetap sesuai dengan nilai dan norma yang berlaku. Dalam kehidupan keluarga, kemampuan ini menjadi aspek yang penting bagi orang tua karena berpengaruh terhadap pola pengasuhan, pengambilan keputusan, serta hubungan dengan anak. Namun, berbagai tekanan seperti masalah ekonomi, kelelahan fisik, tuntutan peran sebagai orang tua, dan perilaku anak yang tidak sesuai harapan sering kali memengaruhi kemampuan orang tua dalam mengendalikan diri. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menganalisis self-control orang tua di Dusun Bela' berdasarkan pendekatan Rasional Emotif, sehingga diperoleh pemahaman mengenai hubungan antara pola pikir, emosi, dan perilaku orang tua dalam menghadapi berbagai situasi pengasuhan. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode penelitian kualitatif dengan pendekatan deskriptif. Data diperoleh melalui observasi, wawancara, dan studi kepustakaan, kemudian dianalisis melalui tahapan reduksi data, penyajian data, dan penarikan kesimpulan. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa self-control orang tua dipengaruhi oleh cara mereka memaknai setiap peristiwa yang dialami. Orang tua yang memiliki keyakinan irasional cenderung lebih mudah mengalami kemarahan, kekecewaan, dan kesulitan mengendalikan perilaku ketika menghadapi anak. Sebaliknya, orang tua yang mampu membangun pola pikir yang lebih rasional menunjukkan kemampuan yang lebih baik dalam mengelola emosi, mengevaluasi keyakinan, menerima diri, serta menampilkan perilaku yang lebih adaptif dalam menjalankan peran pengasuhan. Dengan demikian, pendekatan Rasional Emotif memberikan kerangka analisis yang membantu menjelaskan keterkaitan antara pikiran, emosi, dan perilaku dalam membentuk self-control orang tua di Dusun Bela'. Kata Kunci: Self-Control, Pendekatan Rasional Emotif, Orang Tua, Pengendalian Diri. ABSTRACT Self-control is an individual's ability to regulate thoughts, emotions, and behavior in accordance with prevailing values and social norms. In family life, this ability is essential for parents because it influences parenting practices, decision-making, and relationships with their children. However, various pressures, including economic difficulties, physical fatigue, parental responsibilities, and children's behavior that does not meet expectations, often affect parents' ability to control themselves. This study aims to analyze parents' self-control in Dusun Bela' based on the Rational Emotive approach in order to understand the relationship between thoughts, emotions, and behavior in various parenting situations. This research employed a qualitative method using a descriptive approach. Data were collected through observation, interviews, and literature study, and were analyzed through data reduction, data presentation, and conclusion drawing. The findings reveal that parents' self-control is strongly influenced by the way they interpret and respond to life events. Parents who hold irrational beliefs tend to experience anger, disappointment, and difficulty controlling their behavior when dealing with their children. In contrast, parents who develop more rational ways of thinking demonstrate better emotional regulation, greater ability to evaluate their beliefs, stronger self-acceptance, and more adaptive behavior in carrying out their parenting responsibilities. Therefore, the Rational Emotive approach provides an appropriate analytical framework for explaining the relationship between thoughts, emotions, and behavior in shaping parents' self-control in Dusun Bela'. Keywords: Self-Control, Rational Emotive Approach, Parents, Self-Regulation.

Item Type:	Thesis (Scholar)
Subjects:	B Philosophy. Psychology. Religion > BF Psychology
Depositing User:	am andarias m.
Date Deposited:	30 Jul 2026 18:20
Last Modified:	30 Jul 2026 18:20
URI:	http://digilib-iakntoraja.ac.id/id/eprint/5589

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