Analisis Tahapan Kedukaan Seorang Ibu yang Kehilangan Anak Beruntun: Studi Kasus di Gereja Toraja Jemaat Bukit Ararat Sangpolo

Tibe, Nopa (2026) Analisis Tahapan Kedukaan Seorang Ibu yang Kehilangan Anak Beruntun: Studi Kasus di Gereja Toraja Jemaat Bukit Ararat Sangpolo. Scholar thesis, Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Toraja.

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Abstract

Kehilangan anak secara beruntun merupakan pengalaman yang dapat menimbulkan kedukaan mendalam dan memengaruhi kondisi emosional, sosial, serta spiritual seorang ibu. Kedukaan yang dialami akibat kehilangan berulang sering kali berlangsung dalam waktu yang panjang dan menunjukkan respons yang beragam. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menganalisis tahapan dan pengalaman kedukaan seorang ibu yang kehilangan anak secara beruntun dalam konteks praktik konseling pastoral di Gereja Toraja Jemaat Bukit Ararat Sangpolo. Penelitian menggunakan metode kualitatif dengan pendekatan studi kasus. Data diperoleh melalui wawancara, observasi. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa informan mengalami tahapan kedukaan berupa penyangkalan, marah, tawar-menawar, depresi, dan penerimaan sesuai teori Elisabeth Kubler-Ross. Namun, tahapan tersebut tidak berlangsung secara linear, melainkan muncul secara berulang dan saling tumpang tindih. Tahap depresi menjadi tahap yang paling dominan, sedangkan tahap penerimaan belum tercapai sepenuhnya karena kesedihan dan kerinduan terhadap anak-anaknya masih dirasakan hingga saat penelitian dilakukan. Penelitian ini memberikan kontribusi bagi pengembangan ilmu Konseling Pastoral, khususnya dalam memahami dinamika kedukaan akibat kehilangan anak secara beruntun. Selain itu, hasil penelitian ini dapat menjadi referensi bagi gereja, konselor pastoral, mahasiswa, dan peneliti selanjutnya dalam merancang pendampingan pastoral yang lebih kontekstual, empatik, dan berkelanjutan bagi individu yang mengalami kedukaan mendalam akibat kehilangan anggota keluarga secara berulang. Kata Kunci: kedukaan, kehilangan anak secara beruntun, Tahapan kedukaan, konseling pastoral. ABSTRACT The successive loss of children is a deeply distressing experience that can significantly affect a mother's emotional, social, and spiritual well-being. Grief resulting from repeated losses often endures over an extended period and is manifested through a variety of responses. This study aims to analyze the stages and experiences of grief of a mother who experienced the successive loss of her children within the context of pastoral counseling practice at Gereja Toraja Bukit Ararat Sangpolo Congregation. This research employed a qualitative method with a case study approach. Data were collected through interviews, observations, and documentation. The results showed that the participant experienced the stages of grief proposed by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, namely denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. However, these stages did not occur in a linear manner but appeared repeatedly and overlapped with one another. Depression was found to be the most dominant stage, while full acceptance had not yet been achieved because feelings of sadness and longing for her children were still present at the time of the study. This research contributes to the development of Pastoral Counseling studies, particularly in understanding the dynamics of grief resulting from the successive loss of children. Furthermore, the findings may serve as a reference for churches, pastoral counselors, students, and future researchers in designing more contextual, empathetic, and sustainable pastoral care for individuals experiencing profound grief due to repeated family losses. Keywords: grief, successive child loss, stages of grief, pastoral counseling.

Item Type:	Thesis (Scholar)
Subjects:	B Philosophy. Psychology. Religion > BV Practical Theology
Depositing User:	am andarias m.
Date Deposited:	30 Jul 2026 18:07
Last Modified:	30 Jul 2026 18:07
URI:	http://digilib-iakntoraja.ac.id/id/eprint/5587

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